BEST OF MY BOOKSHELF: Nonfiction Edition

Editor’s Note:  Books chosen to review or recommend not based on endorsements.  I purchase my own books with cold, hard cash or find for FREE through my dear old local public library.  I write about books that I like and believe that others might also.  If you would like to purchase a book that I have recommended, please consider using the Amazon affiliate link provided (click picture).  Happy reading!
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Let’s review, friends.  I know my role here.  I am no New York Times Review of Books.  I am a girl that likes some books and would be delighted if you tried them for yourself, if you are so inclined.  For more on this, click here.  If nonfiction is not your bag, check out the Best of My Bookshelf, Fiction Edition.

So, without further ado, I humbly offer to you

BEST BOOKS FROM MY SUMMER OBSESSION

The Wives of Henry VIII by Antonia Fraser

I’m a rabbit hole reader.  To understand more about this, (click here).  I love delving headlong into a topic and exploring it from all kind of angles.  After spending a couple of weeks with the fictionalized versions of the players at the court of Henry VIII, I resolved to learn the real skinny.  Fraser’s The Wives of Henry VIII provided just the ticket for my passage to OBSESSION TOWN.  She dives deeply into each of his wives’ lives and investigates how and why they were chosen by Henry.  Fraser also explores their relationships with one another and articulates each woman's worldview.  Fascinating, to say the least.  These ladies were fully realized women, some pawns in the hands of powerful men, others crafty and ambitious in their own right.  There is so much more to Catherine, Anne, Jane, Anne, Kathryn, and Catherine (methinks Henry had a THING for Catherines?) than the rhyme “divorced, beheaded, died. . . divorced, beheaded, survived” suggests.   An educational and very interesting read. . .the perfect end to the summer of Henry VIII.

BEST BIOGRAPHY

Alexander Hamilton by Ron Chernow
His name is Alexander Hamilton. 

His name is Alexander Hamilton.  There are a million things he hasn’t done.

But just you wait. 

Just you wait.

Ron Chernow’s thoughtful, thorough, compelling and LENGTHY book explores the life of the misunderstood, brilliant, prolific, self-destructive, and ultimately doomed Hamilton, America’s frequently forgotten founding father.  Spending time with Hamilton and his contemporaries was one of the highlights of my year.  We think politics is rough now? Cruel?  Lacking decorum and civility?  HA!  That’s nothing compared to what these men did to each other while designing the structure of our nation.  For all their lofty ideals, when the chips were down, these founding fathers weren’t afraid to play DIRTY.  (Except General Washington, naturally).     

Now, I knew Lin-Manuel Miranda’s rap, blues, jazz, and ballad infused musical based on Chernow’s doorstop of a biography was Tony-Award winning and a big giant deal, but I had NO REAL CLUE what a TREAT it was when my mother surprised my sister and me with tickets to see the show.  I avoided listening to the score, as I wanted to be as fresh as possible for the live event, but happily indulged in the book, as I wanted to have a sense of the story.  And what a story it is. 

The quintessential immigrant, Hamilton, brilliant, orphaned, and penniless, uses his pen and his personality to incite revolution.  He rapidly found himself serving as an aide-de-camp to General Washington, Secretary of the Treasury, creator of our modern financial system, visionary for the army, founder of the Coast Guard. . .need I go on?  Thanks to Chernow and Miranda, we can all be transfixed through words and music by Hamilton's extraordinary story.  It has everything. . . poverty, power, politics, position, passion, and premature demise.  I promise, you will love this book.  Just you wait.  Just you wait!

BEST Quasi-BIOGRAPHY


Forty Ways to Look at Winston Churchill by Gretchen Rubin

This is a gem.  Rubin organizes Churchill’s remarkable life into forty succinct chapters that examine various aspects of Churchill's life, including his view of history, the world and himself, how he transformed throughout his life, the myths surrounding him, his fitness for office, how others perceived him, and his infamous “Black Dog” of depression.  Rubin often presents contrasting views on a given topic, citing significant historical references to support both points of view (for example, Churchill as an alcoholic:  yes or no?).  This balanced construct allows the reader to form his or her own opinions from the carefully researched cases presented.  A smart, quick read, Rubin’s book paints a balanced, yet nuanced, portrait of one of history’s most colorful and influential characters.  (To explore Rubin’s groundbreaking books on happiness and habits, click here and here and here).

BEST MEMOIR  

Hillbilly Elegy:  A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis  by J.D. Vance

Hillbilly Elegy was recommended to me by two of my favorite readers (and favorite people!), and I wholeheartedly echo their endorsements.  This first hand account of a self-proclaimed hillbilly will open your eyes, and more importantly, your heart, to a culture that tends to goes unseen by mainstream America.  The broad expanse of our geography and our different races and religions create many sub-cultures within the wider American context that, all too often, seldom interact, leading to misunderstanding at best and mistrust at worst. 

J.D. Vance invites us into his world of colorful, loving, violent, flawed, kind, and fascinating hillbillies who shaped him into who he is now, a military veteran and Yale-educated lawyer.  His family was loving and scary in equal measure, so much so that when Vance was recruited for the Marines, the officer in charge of his case noted that boot camp would be breeze after being raised by his fearsome grandmother.  Vance reveals the lack of agency present in his culture, with the resulting lack of hope, which “is distinct from the larger economic landscape of modern America” (p. 7). Vance's careful examination of the motives, perceptions, and cultural mores are neither romanticized or patronized; rather, he simply, eloquently, and honestly tells us his tale, one that helps part the curtain on a culture that feels ignored by most of America society.

BEST ESSAY COLLECTION

Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living by Shauna Niequist

This book was a giant, much needed exhale for a woman who didn’t even know she was holding her breath.  In a series of essays, Niequist takes us through her journey from fleeing a frantic way of life and explains how and why slowing down, saying no, and disappointing the right people can transform the hurly-burly of our modern lives into one with greater peace, connection, and joy. 

A pleaser and performer by nature, Niequist slowly was becoming someone who, in the pursuit of incredible productivity, became numb to her soul and the abundant LIFE that was to be found within her own small world.  No, she did not move to some rural enclave where there are no trappings of modern life, no hustle, no logistics, and no commitments.  From her home in the suburbs of Chicago, the belly of the beast, Niequist, like a wise friend who has emerged from the other side of the fire, implores her readers to just STOP.  Stop proving and performing.  Do what you were made to do at the speed that you were made to do it.  She reminds us that we are loved, not for what we do, but because we are children of God. Spend some time with Niequist, and you too may just stop holding your breath.   

BEST SHORT NONFICTION

We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adiche

FEMINIST.  This is a loaded word in our culture, perhaps never more so than the present.  I realized I was long overdue for refresher about the notion of feminism, so I picked up this timely, slim, and eloquent treatise, an expanded version of Adiche's famous TEDx Talk.

The other day, one of my sons and I were having a discussion about a teacher’s perspective on a national issue.  My poor, hapless, unsuspecting boy stated derisively that this teacher was a “FEMINIST,” to which my husband quickly responded, “So am I.  So is Mom.  What do you think it means to be a feminist?”  Out poured a slew of misconceptions and culturally-sanctioned rhetoric that shocked me, and frankly, had nothing to do with the issue we were discussing.  Feminism can be a contentious idea that people still, despite years of cultural dialogue, have difficulty understanding.  And to be honest, so do I sometimes.  It is a LOADED concept.  Fortunately, I was armed with Adiche’s simple, and at times, very funny words to help us find some clarity. 

Adiche, the author of the award winning novels Americanah and Half of a Yellow Sun, describes what it actually means to be a feminist, “a person who believes in the social, political and economic equality of the sexes” (p.47).  (Unlike the rhetoric that has been bandied about recently, Adiche contends that your stance on pro-life/pro-choice policies does not include or exclude you from the feminist club.  I appreciate this position).  She also explores the misconceptions and cultural constraints surrounding the concept of feminism from the unique perspective a woman who resides both in Nigeria and the United States.  During a time when labels are thrown around in ways that are meant to divide rather than unite us, I believe it is helpful to understand the people and the stories that embody these labels.  Adiche does this brilliantly.  

BEST COOKBOOK/MEMOIR

How to Celebrate Everything by Jenny Rosenstrach

Jenny Rosenstrach is a DELIGHT.  Her first book, Dinner:  A Love Story  (see review here) chronicled the recipes and stories of how family dinner became the organizing principle of her marriage, family, traditions, and life.  Her most current book, How to Celebrate Everything, follows this same formula, with delicious, poignant, and heartwarming stories and recipes to take you through the whole year.  From birthdays to New Year’s Eve and everything in between, Rosenstrach inspires the reader to make both ordinary and special occasions something to celebrate. Try her chocolate pudding pie.  THE BEST.  (And the easiest, cheater-ish, most delicious pie in the entire world!  Shh. . . it involves STORE BOUGHT CRUST).

BEST NONFICTION PICTURE BOOK

Squash, Boom, Beet:  An Alphabet for Healthy, Adventurous Eaters by Lisa Maxbauer Price

This GORGEOUS, vibrant, creative book by Price, (who has both NORTHERN MICHIGAN and SAINT MARY'S COLLEGE street cred. . .HOLLA!) has become a hit in our house.  Through striking photographs, the book introduces young children to a slew of mouthwatering vegetables, linking them with the alphabet and cleverly worded text.  It definitely has started conversations around here about what to grown in our garden this summer (Easter egg radishes, anyone?) and helps promote more adventurous eating.  (Still can't get brussels sprouts past them.  Sheesh).  Price's book is a great gift for the reluctant eaters in your life, of any age. 

HAPPY READING, friends!  What reading adventures await you?  
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The Best of My Bookshelf 2016: FICTION EDITION

Editor’s Note:  Books chosen to review or recommend are not based on endorsements.  I purchase my own books with cold, hard cash or find for FREE through my dear old local public library.  I write about books that I like and believe that others might also.  If you would like to purchase a book that I have recommended, please consider using the Amazon affiliate link provided.  Happy reading!

Readers!  It’s the most wonderful time of the year!  The most glorious!  The most exciting!  The most anticipated BY FAR!

Now, I know you are thinking. . . . Does she mean Christmas?  Or New Year’s?  No, no, no, gentle reader.  You would be wrong.

The most wonderful time of the year for bibliophiles like me is the week BETWEEN Christmas and New Year’s, because it is. . . .

THE WEEK WHEN ALL OF THE BOOK PEOPLE
PUBLISH LISTS OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR!

I live for these lists.  I compare my reading life to these lists. (How many did I read?  How many did I like?  Which ones appeal to me and which ones would I throw across the room and deem a waste of my time?).  I build my new reading lists and dream about what I might read over the next year.  So, I’ve decided to add my teeny-tiny two cents to the litany of “best of” lists.  

Let me be clear.  I am no New York Times Book Review. I am no Modern Mrs. Darcy. I am just a girl, throwing book recommendations out into the big wide internet, and hoping that some people will love them. This list is by no means exhaustive, nor does it consist of books only published this year.  It’s simply and only the books that I feel are the best of what I read.  While I read extensively, my list includes what I like to read, which means mostly memoir, a smattering of fiction, a biography or two, or three, and a few fluffy, plucky heroine type easy-reads for those days when my brain needs some candy.     

So, without further ado, I humbly offer to you

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BEST NOVEL

A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman
I am remarkably bad at choosing my own fiction.  I guard my heart carefully, and intensely dislike books with antiheroes, unreliable narrators, or those that I deem emotionally manipulative (I’m looking at YOU, Gone Girl and Girl on the Train).  I like novels that point to a larger story, that help me see things from a different perspective, and invite me to root for compelling characters.   Bachman’s novel, translated from Swedish, hits all of these requirements, and is a page turner to boot.  If you want your heart to expand a few sizes, I recommend spending some time with this man called Ove.  (For a more extensive review, click here).  

BEST ADAPTATION OF A CLASSIC

Eligible by Curtis Sittenfeld  
This was my go-to hostess gift for the readers in my life this summer.  Great for a warm day of beach sitting, this quirky, quick, funny, modern adaptation of Austin’s Pride and Prejudice does not disappoint.   Set in modern day Cincinnati, the reader is taken on a familiar journey with surprising twists and genuine laugh out loud moments.  If you want to spend time with an old friend who has been given a bit of a make-over, this is the book for you.  

BEST PLUCKY HEROINE NOVEL FOR WHEN I’M OVERWHELMED

Little Beach Street Bakery by Jenny Colgan

I must be honest.  This book can be swapped out for ANY book that fits the following prototype.  They are ALL THE SAME.  But when I am overwhelmed, under the weather, blue, or in serious procrastination mode, I settle myself in a comfortable chair, grab a cup of tea and a plateful of carbs, and dig into the PLUCKY HEROINE NOVEL.  

For the uninitiated, here is a look at the plot of EVERY SINGLE plucky heroine novel:

TITLE: (completely interchangeable, but must include something endearing, inclusive, and homespun,  like little, club, cafe, society, bakery)

SETTING:  Initially, our story begins in a bustling town or major city, but eventually, shifts to a tucked away, remote, lick your wounds, slightly forgotten by time kind of place, even if it happens to be in a city.  But it usually is rural, charming, and oh-so-quaint.

QUALITY OF WRITING:  Varies from the plodding and trite to the sublime.  I reach nirvana when I stumble upon a plucky heroine trope that is also stylistically beautiful.  But, I will admit, finding that is akin to a unicorn sighting.  Don’t hold your breath.  

CAST OF CHARACTERS:

The Heroine
        The reader meets a down on her luck girl, who is pretty but unconventionally so, who is overweight/too tall/too short/has some unfortunate prominent feature, and who suddenly has found herself at loose ends.  She loses the LOSER boyfriend, loses a job, a promotion, or a husband.  Most importantly, she realizes that she has lost HERSELF AND HER PURPOSE when she wrapped herself up in a man/the dreams of someone else.   So she ESCAPES to the secluded island/countryside/up and coming urban neighborhood to lick her wounds, often while eating too many candy bars/cakes and drinking too much wine/coffee/champagne.

The (False) Love Interest
        Flaky, flighty, unscrupulous, slothful, narcissistic, conceited, ne’er-do-well, this is an overgrown Peter Pan who our Heroine wrongly believes that she can SAVE.  (Spoiler alert:  She      CANNOT.)  He's a Captain of the Universe type, always a businessman, doctor, or a lawyer, when not a gadabout or an impractical dreamer.  Our Heroine gets temporarily blinded by his charms and his false promise to rescue her.  This flake REALLY gets the goat of the Heroine’s OTP, and lots of tension between these two men ensue.  The really good novels have SEVERAL of these men to content with throughout the course of the story.

The Heroine’s OTP
        This man, our girl’s OTP (one true pairing) is the butter to her bread.  They complete each other, but they don’t know if yet.  They have a rocky beginning, many misunderstandings, and at least one minor and one major separation, which results in a crescendo of kisses at their tearful, romantic reunion.  They are puzzle pieces that connect beautifully.  Her      quirkiness/loquaciousness/homemaking abilities perfectly match his steadiness/stoicism/unkempt appearance/messy house.  The OTP gets bonus points for working with his hands, working the land, being an artist/musician, or teaching small children.   Sigh.

The Best Friend
        Like our Heroine, she is unconventionally beautiful, usually described as “Botticelli” or Pre-Raphaelite.  All curves and wisecracks and bosom, the best friend has a droll sense of humor, sound advice, tough love when necessary, and can open a bottle of wine even faster than she can apply her fire engine red lipstick.  She is a wonder.  Every Heroine needs this broad as her wing woman.

The Guide
        The Guide is someone who is either already dead, or heading rapidly in that direction.  The Guide is a guru to our heroine, both professionally and personally.  The Heroine looks to the guide to solve the inevitable issues in relationships, romance, business, and ultimately, survival that will come her way.  The loss of the guide will likely throw her into the arms of either the OTP or the (False) Love Interest.

The Villain
        Often the (False) Love Interest doubles as our villain.  He double crosses, betrays, or exposes our heroine to further his own interests.  Or, the villain can be an unscrupulous landlord, mortgage lender, or city official that wants to destroy the dream and the livelihood of our Heroine.

Minor Characters
        Always quirky and typically one-dimensional, referred to by station in life (yummy mummy) or profession (John the Builder, Hal the Mailman).  They are always wise, have twinkle in their    eyes, and dispense nuggets of advice for our Heroine.  Sometimes, their comments and observations cause our Heroine to have her GREAT EPIPHANY (usually about who she really loves, the reliable OTP).

Look up Jenny Colgan, Jo-Jo Moyes, and Liane Moriarty, and you’ve got yourself hours and hours of plucky heroine fun ahead of you.  ENJOY!


BEST BOOKS FROM MY SUMMER OBSESSION

Wolf Hall and Bring Up the Bodies by Hilary Mantel

It starts innocently enough.  I am driving kiddos around, listening to a podcast, and hear a book recommendation.  Its unusual title piques my interest.  The host is convincing, earnest, and almost evangelical in his fervor about the book he is recommending.  I holler into the backseat and instruct the kid with the best memory to remember the title, because I am a responsible adult and am conscientiously driving with the hands at 10 and 2 and can't possibly write anything down. 


As I enter the garage and switch off the ignition, the kid blurts out the title, and before I am even out of the driver's seat I am downloading this book.
Meet Wolf Hall.
Now, this book is LONG.  I struggled through the first several hundred pages of this book.  Nothing but my own stubborn tendencies and rule-following nature propelled me forward.  I even texted with friends about the philosophy of abandoning books. . . .to finish or not to finish?  That is the question.  But finish, I did, and was rewarded with an uptick in the plot line that was unexpected and engaging.  And then, I learned that this was the FIRST BOOK IN A TRILOGY.  Glory, glory, hallelujah.  

I entered the READING RABBIT HOLE.

I became a woman OBSESSED.  Every thought was about the courtly love and how it, strangely,  parallels the life of suburbia today. . . .all the machinations about children and the posturing and positioning that goes on my my little corner of the world is not that different than what happened at the court of Henry VIII.  Only, no one has the power to send people to the Tower.  Yet.

I needed to feed the beast.  I immediately had to get the second installment of the Thomas Cromwell trilogy, Bring Up the Bodies.

I devoured it as quickly as Henry VIII did wives, and I popped to my computer to try to buy the third book.
What I found was sickening.  Disturbing.  Shocking, really.

IT HAS NOT BEEN PUBLISHED YET.

From where you are, can you hear the wailing and gnashing of teeth?  What's a girl to do now that she has been sucked in to the Tudor court and now has nowhere to go?

She goes back to the beginning.
I reread an oldie but a goodie.

I devour it like Anne Boleyn did Katherine of Aragon.
I'm still not satisfied.  I'm like the gluttonous, fat, spoiled tyrant created and nurtured by the Boleyn and Howard families.
I NEED MORE.
When will it end?  How?  When will my curiosity be satisfied?
Probably when I have watched Henry VIII finally die.
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